"According to Daniel Kahneman and Shane Fredrick, attribute substitution underlies many of our heuristics. It happens when we inadvertently swap a tough question for a simpler one and then answer that stand-in question instead."
Thursday, May 15, 2025
The Monty Hall Problem And Critical Thinking
"According to Daniel Kahneman and Shane Fredrick, attribute substitution underlies many of our heuristics. It happens when we inadvertently swap a tough question for a simpler one and then answer that stand-in question instead."
Saturday, May 10, 2025
The President As An Abusive Parent
"Ronald Reagan’s policies were terrible, but he tried to present himself as a decent man.
"Trump is a despicable human being. His odiousness affects many of us because presidents are parent figures to the nation as a whole.
"According to psychological research, we respond to presidents much as we did to parents when we were kids.
"George Lakoff, professor of cognitive linguistics at Berkeley, has found that two competing models of parenting shape political preferences: either the 'strict parent' or 'nurturant parent.'
"The strict parent views the world as a dangerous place that needs to be controlled. The nurturant parent emphasizes empathy and mutual responsibility.
"Lakoff has found that presidents are elected either because a large portion of the public wants a tough, judgmental parent — or a caring, nurturing one.
"Reagan fit into the strict parent model; Barack Obama, the nurturant parent one.
"But I think Trump represents a third model — the cruel and abusive parent. A parent so malignantly narcissistic that he wields punishment for his own satisfaction, often in unpredictable ways that make him even more terrifying.
"In other words, Trump is not just abusing presidential power by violating laws and the Constitution. His behavior is also abusive.
"His malignant narcissism is viciously vindictive. His cruelty borders on sadism; he seems to take pleasure in causing others pain. And he often changes his mind or alters the punishment, creating even more confusion and fear.
"I don’t want to oversimplify the very complex relationships between the parenting we had (or subconsciously want) and how we respond to Trump. But I believe these emotional connections are real and important. Critiques of Trump’s policies alone don’t get at them.
"Many of us who had nurturing parents are depressed and disoriented by Trump. We find it hard to comprehend how such a detestable person can wield so much power over us.
"Even many voters who hold to the strict parent view — who may have had a strict parent and perhaps voted for Trump because they felt the nation and the world were getting out of control — reject his abusiveness. About 6 in 10 U.S. adults now say that Trump has 'gone too far' in using presidential power to achieve his goals.
"A third group is profoundly shaken by Trump. Of the people I know who are most emotionally devastated by him, many had at least one abusive parent.
"I suspect some are overwhelmingly drawn to him for the same reason, but instead of being shattered by him they are fanatically loyal. This would include the sycophants now surrounding him in the White House and Cabinet who appear to share his cruelty and sadism.
"Research shows that abusive parents often become more abusive over time — more enraged, more paranoid, and less predictable.
"Hence, the children of cruel and abusive parents tend to abandon them as soon as they are able. Or cling to them ever more desperately.
"Let’s hope all of America does the former with Trump, and the sooner the better."
Thursday, April 24, 2025
A Gem In A Pile Of Poop
He was a good person. |
Friday, April 18, 2025
Why Facts Don't Work To Change Minds
Saturday, April 12, 2025
The Person Who Knows It All Knows Nothing
Monday, March 31, 2025
A Collage of Facebook Reels Pertinent To The Intent Of This Blog
Is the USA the greatest country? https://www.facebook.com/reel/612897647841485
What would Heaven be like? https://www.facebook.com/watch/?mibextid=wwXIfr&v=2863457223831381&rdid=MXqxZCIuOQdr3KOZ
How are people manipulated? https://www.facebook.com/reel/988493846481564
Do you understand privilege? https://www.facebook.com/watch/?mibextid=wwXIfr&v=635880572605857&rdid=rMypdcKHnz7USzf9
Do you understand peer pressure? https://www.facebook.com/reel/483410001372828
Do you understand how intellectualism collapsed? https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1LTKpMmLZs/
What is the greatest threat to humanity? https://www.facebook.com/reel/1187752976688900
Friday, March 21, 2025
The Underlying Problem With MAGA: Childish/Magical Thinking
One major trait of Trumpers/MAGA is childish/magical thinking. Everything is black and white. There is no room for understanding that reality can be much more than good or bad/right or wrong in many serious topics/circumstances. Unsupported certainty can be the enemy of nuance, humility, and understanding
There is a reason why fear works so well on them: they are easily blocked from considering that they may be incorrect in their opinions. The majority probably were raised within a religion and that religion poisoned their brains from challenging the dogma to which they were exposed.
Below is an emblematic of this problem:
- "I am afraid of the 'other' that I was taught to hate. Those immigrants will harm me and take my job. I must support deporting them as fast as we can, to Hell with due process/the Rule of Law."
Thursday, March 13, 2025
"Stupid": The Need For Critical Thinking
Tuesday, March 11, 2025
Trump's IQ? How About His Emotional Intelligence?
Key elements of EI: self-awareness, self-regulation, motivation, empathy, and social skills.
Benefits of EI:
- Better relationships: EI can help you build stronger relationships with others.
- Better communication: EI can help you communicate effectively with others.
- Better decision making: EI can help you make informed decisions.
- Better conflict management: EI can help you resolve conflict effectively.
- Better stress management: EI can help you relieve stress.
- Name your feelings
- Understand how your feelings impact your behavior
- Pause and reconsider your response before acting
- Develop your social skills
- Practice active listening
- Use open body language
- Develop rapport with others
- Express leadership
- History of EI
Monday, March 3, 2025
Understanding The Introverted Personality
Wednesday, February 26, 2025
What Everyone Gets Wrong About Gambling on Sports
Wednesday, January 22, 2025
Tuesday, January 14, 2025
Geniuses Are Different (And That's Not Bad)
"In this thought-provoking video, we dive into the philosophy of Arthur Schopenhauer and explore why smart people often don’t care about being social. Schopenhauer, known for his pessimistic worldview, argued that solitude is not only necessary for deep thought but also a form of liberation from the superficiality of social interactions. We’ll break down his ideas about human nature, the burden of social expectations, and why intelligent individuals often prefer the peace and introspection of their own company. If you’ve ever felt out of place in social situations or wondered why some people seem indifferent to socializing, this video is for you. Join us as we discuss how Schopenhauer’s insights can help us better understand the nature of social interaction and personal fulfillment."
Click on the link below for the video:
Why Smart People Don't Care About Being Social | SchopenhauerFriday, January 3, 2025
History Is At Least Rhyming
"In the episode we’re about to share, Sean Illing and his guest, historian Edward Watts, discuss how America today feels like ancient Rome…right before its empire collapsed."
Click on the link below for a podcast that examines the psychological and historical aspects of the present and potential future of the USA.
The Gray Area: Is America collapsing like ancient Rome?Sunday, December 29, 2024
Happiness: It's Not What Conservatives Think
The parenting paradox
How job crafting can bring purpose to any career
Self-care vs caring for others
Practicing gratitude
The health effects of loneliness and the importance of social connection
The relationship between religion and happiness
Why negative emotions are necessary"



